shiyiya:

girl-in-a-wheelchair:

I’m going to stick a little caveat on this because I think that “care” is the wrong choice of word - I would care that they are trans because I would want to be receptive to their needs and what they want. Instead I will specifically say; I would not be bothered by it nor regard it in a negative way, and specifically disregard it in any decision about whether I wanted to be in a relationship with them.

What she said. (Also, both my partners are nonbinary. So.)

I proposed to my genderqueer fiancé when he identified as a binary trans woman. So no, it makes no difference to me. Why does your friend think people would be bothered by it? I mean, I know some would, but I’d like to think there are lots of people out there to whom it doesn’t make any odds other than what girl-in-a-wheelchair just said.